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“All good things must come to an end.”
— Geoffrey Chaucer
Dear Gentle Soul,
Life is a symphony, and sometimes the most harmonious note is silence—the quiet understanding that it's time to let go.
Your heart, that gentle compass guiding you through the wilderness of existence, knows when the melody has changed, when the rhythm no longer resonates with your soul. Trust in its wisdom, for it beats in synchroneity with your true North.
I've walked alongside that whispering heart, felt its tug when the time came to bid farewell to what no longer nourished my spirit. It's a daunting journey, isn't it? The decision to release the weight of what no longer serves us can feel like laying down a heavy weight, leaving us vulnerable yet strangely liberated.
It's easy to linger in spaces where we no longer belong. Whether it's the confines of a suffocating job, the arms of a toxic relationship, or the superficial allure of a fleeting party, we find ourselves entangled in webs of obligation and expectation.
I've stood where you stand now, caught between the impulse to stay and the whisper to leave. The temptation to overwork, to overprove, to overextend ourselves in the hopes that someone, somewhere, will finally see our worth—it's a siren song that lures many astray.
But here's the truth: not everyone will recognize your value, and that's okay. It's not a reflection of your worth but of their limitations. Loving oneself enough to walk away—now, that's the ultimate act of courage and self-respect.
Fear and misplaced loyalty often shackle us to situations and people who diminish rather than uplift us. Whether it's a soul-sapping job, a relationship poisoned by toxicity, or friendships that leave us feeling depleted, we must learn to recognize when it's time to step away.
“Sometimes things fall apart so that better things can fall together.”
―Marilyn Monroe
The Job.
I've clocked enough hours in the realm of work to know that we're all replaceable, interchangeable gears in the machinery of commerce. I've weathered storms of incompetence and indifference, traded slivers of my sanity for scraps of paycheck. But one of life's greatest freedoms lies in the ability to walk away—to reclaim our autonomy, our dignity, our peace of mind.
The Relationship.
Love shouldn't leave bruises, nor should it require constant bandaging of wounds inflicted by those we hold dear. Relationships, be they romantic or platonic, should be sources of solace, not founts of anguish. Recognizing when to untangle ourselves from the toxic embrace of another, when to prioritize our own well-being over futile attempts at salvation—that's a lesson I've learned the hard way, and it's one I wish I'd embraced sooner.
The Party.
And as for those gatherings where laughter feels like a facade, where camaraderie masks contempt—I've been there too. I have learned that true friendship isn't measured in the clink of glasses or the echo of loud laughter; it's found in the quiet moments of understanding, the gentle touch of support, the unwavering presence through life's tempests.
The Table.
So, dear soul, if you find yourself seated at a table where love and respect are scarce commodities, know that you're under no obligation to remain. Build your own table, prepare your own feast, and invite those who honor and celebrate the essence of who you are.
May you find the courage to heed the whispers of your heart, to navigate the ebb and flow of life with grace and resilience. And may you always remember that letting go isn't a sign of weakness but of profound strength—a testament to your unwavering commitment to self-love and self-respect.
Thank you for journeying with me.
With light and warmth,
A.
Affirmations:
Inhale:
My heart knows when to let go.
Exhale:
I will listen to it.
Inhale:
I will not stay where I am not valued.
Exhale:
I will not stay until I implode.
Reflection:
How are you listening to your heart right now?
What are you releasing in this season?
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Thank you for this gentle reminder. It can be so hard to let go, especially when you feel like you’ve put in too much work already not to see it through but sometimes it’s necessary. 💛
Thank you for this. Just, thank you.😔